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The latest insights from Abbey staff including Will le Fleming and Nisha Kaura


  • Gateway Highlights
    by Together Abbey on 17 May 2024

    Summer Term Week 5 – Gateway Highlights

  • Reading Festival of Sport 2024
    by Together Abbey on 17 May 2024

    GB Gymnast Kelly Simm and Fulham FC Women’s Ellie Olds officially opened the Reading Festival of Sport 2024 at The Abbey Junior School on Saturday. The festival was hosted as part of the Reading […]

  • School Council
    by Together Abbey on 17 May 2024

    Previously, school council was a termly meeting of form representatives and members of the student leadership team that allowed students to share ideas on how to improve our school. From the start of […]

  • Mental Health First Aid
    by Together Abbey on 17 May 2024

    This week marked Mental Health Awareness Week, so the four of us decided to run a Skills 4 Life session for our fellow Lower VI students and the Upper IV, sharing some of the important takeaways from […]

  • Standing on the shoulders of Giants
    by Together Abbey on 17 May 2024

    You might recognise this title as a quote attributed to Sir Isaac Newton. We wrote a letter to Robert Hooke in 1675and made this famous statement: “If I have seen further, it is by standing on the […]

  • U12 Cricket
    by Together Abbey on 17 May 2024

    On Monday 13 May, the U12 cricketers played their first cricket fixture, against Reading Blue Coat girls. The U12’s demonstrated good consistency in their bowling, with Charlotte being nominated as […]

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A lovely personal message from one of our bands, ‘Side Hustle’ who will be performing at our annual Night of Rock!

Rock on and grab your tickets via the link in our bio!

It's going to be a rockin' good time!

#AbbeyMusic
Did you know that only 19% of UK tech workers are women and women hold only 5% of leadership positions in the tech industry according to a 2023 LinkedIn Study.

That is why today we are shining a spotlight on Liz Catherall - Head of Agile Delivery at the Department of Business and Trade. 

Liz previously worked in policy for over 15 years before making the change to the tech industry. She has always been interested in all things digital, but most specifically in how to engage with people in less traditional ways. Throughout her tech career, she has taken the opportunity to further her learning with professional courses. Well done, Liz, for your commitment and hard work

Courtesy of http://GOV.UK Blog

#BeyondTheAbbey
The best offer for nursery places, and the most exciting, innovative and rigorous curriculum available anywhere in the country - welcome to The Abbey Junior School.

Register for our next open event and see why we have everything your daughter could wish for: Science laboratory, computer suite, music rooms, ‘Fab Lab’, performance areas, outdoor adventure playground, climbing wall, eco garden, sporting facilities. On top of that we offer clubs galore, and an environment that fuels curiosity and inquisitive thinking.

No wonder we have been shortlisted for the TES Independent Prep School of the Year for the second year running!

Register here https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-abbey-junior-school-open-event-tickets-887635390347?aff=oddtdtcreator  or via the link in our bio 

#PuttingGirlsFirst #AbbeyJuniors
That's the end of another week, and only one more until half-term! Where does the time go? Well, we can tell you through our #AbbeyGateway! 

Get all the news you need to know about the Abbey at https://gateway.theabbey.co.uk/
Congratulations to our IB students on completing their final exams today! You all certainly deserve a long summer filled with rest, relaxation, and fun. Well done!

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Whether it's dressing up as a superhero, creating an artistic masterpiece or having fun with play dough - you are sure to have fun at our Stay and Play sessions!

Our next one is on Friday 24 May and will be held at Little Knellies Nursery. You are welcome to come along and explore our amazing setting, chat with other families, spend some quality time with your children and enjoy some yummy refreshments.

Book your tickets via link in bio!

#AbbeyNursery
This week's interlude featured a special edition showcasing wind instruments and a vocal solo. 

Thank you to our talented students for gracing us with your performances during lunch: Mitali in Upper III on flute, Aadhira in Upper III who sang, Eleanor in Lower VI on clarinet, and Rebekah in Lower VI on flute.

@theabbey_music

#AbbeyMusic #CreativeIndustries #AbbeySeniors
@notw_films are back at Little Knellies!
After making film stars out of our nursery children last year, they are back...and the sequel promises to be a blockbuster. But what will the new film be about? A superhero perhaps? Let's see!

#AbbeyJuniors
We are The Abbey…so of course we had to participate in #WearItGreenDay today!

The Abbey family did a fantastic job of showing their support for Mental Health Awareness Week by wearing green. By going green today, we support the @mentalhealthfoundation in conducting vital research and delivering programs for various communities.

#WearItGreen #MentalHealthAwarenessWeek #AbbeyFamily
What a wonderful #MuseumMemory from our Abbey Museum, Turret House.

Here is an original short poem written by alumna Katherine P. in 1961:

“Carry your glad days,
Over your sad days,
Until your glad days,
Come again.”

@theabbeyalumnae

#AbbeyMemories
Incoming! Some great snaps from the recent #LowerI trip to Ufton Court!

#AbbeyResidential #AbbeyJuniors
#LowerI have had a great time at Ufton Court! The day was full of smiles and laughter; they even had time to dress up in colourful hats!

#AbbeyJuniors

What we aspire to be

Welcome back! The start of a new school year is always a time of such possibility, even if the sun isn’t always shining quite this brightly.

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Prom or Ball?

Prom? Ball? What’s the actual difference, and does it matter? 

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Farewell

Wednesday was National Thank a Teacher Day. I hope some of my colleagues received a note of appreciation.

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Transformative Landscapes

When I was growing up in Surrey, long before I crossed the Atlantic and eventually joined an industry which took me to every part of the world, landscapes and their imagery were my gateway to the…

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The memory project

What is the value of Pi to 16 decimal places? The answer is 3.1415926535897932, which is Pi expressed with sufficient accuracy for the purpose of space engineering.

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Parental involvement

Having parents fully involved in the life of the school and in the progress of their children is vital. It is at the heart of our ethos that sees every student celebrated.

Whether it is regular reporting on academic progress, sharing achievements or giving parents the opportunity to celebrate as a community – parental involvement is at the heart of The Abbey experience.

Junior School

Reporting

From nursery through to Year 6, the reporting system keeps all parents informed of progress. We have a reporting point every half-term. This might be a report against one of the attributes of The Abbey Learner Profile, a parents evening to discuss progress, or a workshop to see the learning happen around you.

Sharing and celebrating

Parents are welcome into school every single week of the year. There is an open coffee morning on Fridays. Parents are welcomed to form assemblies and drama productions. We run Saturday morning discovery sessions, to come in and explore and have fun alongside your children. The annual Fun Run is a major highlight and it all leads up to the summer Celebration Day, a huge party showcasing and celebrating all our students.

Senior School and Sixth Form

Reporting

We run six reporting points a year, one every half term. There’s a full report and parents’ evening every year, and then a range of other reporting systems, including grades and targets. As we move into examination years these begin to reflect grade outcomes so that students and parents know what trajectory they are on. In addition, parents are warmly invited to be in touch whenever they have queries about academic progress: we are committed to being as responsive as possible so that everyone feels confident.

Sharing and celebrating

Parents at the Senior School are warmly invited to the weekly coffee mornings, held at the Junior School but open to groups from all years. There are Heads’ Breakfasts and discussion evenings alongside the full range of concerts, fixtures and performances – some on site and some hosted at the wonderful South Street Arts Centre.

TAPS

The Abbey Parents Society (TAPS) plays a huge role in supporting the school and offering opportunities to connect and celebrate. There are events every term. The annual Candle-Lit Procession is a highlight and there have been movie screenings, quiz nights, BBQs and more. Year group parents also meet via TAPS for evenings out.


Senior School Workshops Second Hand Uniform Shop

Food

Food matters! School lunch is the heart of the day and should always be a highlight. Students also have access to a wide range of healthy snacks to keep them going.

At The Abbey we take food seriously. We spend a lot of time on our lunch offer to make sure it meets every students needs. We cater for halal and other dietary requirements and provide individual food choices as necessary to students with severe allergies and needs.

Junior School

Snacks are served every morning break and received with much enthusiasm! There are four choices at lunch every day and a range of treats and healthy puddings.

Senior School

The day starts with breakfast, served in the main dining room and the Sixth Form cafe at very reasonable prices. Tuck shop opens every morning break. At lunch food is served in the Lower School and Upper School Dining Rooms and Sixth Form centre. There are four options every day and a wonderful salad bar.

In the Sixth Form there is a kitchen for students to use and most importantly there is Nora’s Cafe. Nora keeps the Sixth Form and staff communities going! Hot drinks, delicious food and sheer sunshine is on offer every single day of the Week.

Bake sales

There is no better way to come together as a community and often to raise some money for good causes than around food! We run bake sales throughout the year and food is the centre of wonderful celebrations like Diversity Day, with students trying cuisine from all around the world.

Student snacks and birthday treats

Students may bring in snacks and birthday treats, in consultation with form teachers and tutors. Families should check carefully that no nuts are included in any snacks brought to school.

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Senior School Workshops Second Hand Uniform Shop

Uniform guide

Students wear a range of uniforms from when they start in the school in Nursery up to the end of Upper V (Year 11). In Sixth Form there is a flexible dress code in preparation for further study beyond.

School Uniform Code

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The Abbey IP (Ideas + Passion)

Parental involvement

Having parents fully involved in the life of the school and in the progress of their children is vital. It is at the heart of our ethos that sees every student celebrated.

Whether it is regular reporting on academic progress, sharing achievements or giving parents the opportunity to celebrate as a community – parental involvement is at the heart of The Abbey experience.

Reporting

We run six reporting points a year, one every half term. There’s a full report and parents’ evening every year, and then a range of other reporting systems, including grades and targets. As we move into examination years these begin to reflect grade outcomes so that students and parents know what trajectory they are on. In addition, parents are warmly invited to be in touch whenever they have queries about academic progress: we are committed to being as responsive as possible so that everyone feels confident.

Sharing and celebrating

Parents at the Senior School are warmly invited to the weekly coffee mornings, held at the Junior School but open to groups from all years. There are Heads’ Breakfasts and discussion evenings alongside the full range of concerts, fixtures and performances – some on site and some hosted at the wonderful South Street Arts Centre.

TAPS

The Abbey Parents Society (TAPS) plays a huge role in supporting the school and offering opportunities to connect and celebrate. There are events every term. The annual Candle-Lit Procession is a highlight and there have been movie screenings, quiz nights, BBQs and more. Year group parents also meet via TAPS for evenings out.


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Results and Destinations

Results and destinations

Outcomes matter, and the outcome that matters most is personal development. Wherever students go on to learn next, are they going with hope and optimism, ready to make the absolute most of everything that is on offer?

That’s what motivates us. High achievement on its own is not enough, and if it comes with anxiety, uncertainty and dread, then it is an active hindrance. We are here to support our students, find the right path for them and to walk it with joy in their hearts.

Junior School

We are always thinking about how to support our students with the right next step for them. We share their scores with parents from Year 4, to help make informed decisions. Throughout Year 5 and into Year 6 we meet every family to talk through the best choice for their daughter.

The majority of students choose The Abbey Senior School, and their success rate in open competition for academic, art, drama, music and sport scholarships is staggering. Others opt for boarding or the most competitive grammar school places. Our job is to help each family make the best decision for each child.

We do not believe that systematic tutoring brings children benefits and we believe that they would be outweighed in any case by the impact on their childhood and their sense of freedom. The best path through education is to work hard but in proportion and for each child to end up in the environment in which they can thrive.

Senior School

Students routinely take places in the most competitive UK and world universities. However, their interests are broad. Some students every year access the highest-level degree apprenticeships. Others go on to art foundation, drama school and other creative pathways.

We’re proud of our track record, but what we care about, and what brings every teacher so much reward, is each individual outcome. Whatever you want to do next, we are here to back you every step of the way.

The true test of outcomes are alumnae events. Each one is full of deeply impressive, genuine, warm and passionate adults working in hugely diverse fields. And each alumna has access to a lifelong network of support. An Abbey education supports outcomes far beyond tertiary choices.

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JOY

KINDNESS

Can pop songs inspire kindness? How can we be kinder to our planet? Is kindness an evolutionary trait?

Written by Abbey students, this publication celebrates their creativity of thought, passion for learning, and understanding of the world. Enjoy the read.


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Be kind wherever possible

What is ‘kindness’? The quality of being friendly, generous and considerate – essentially the recipe for being a good person. So, in what ways can people be kind?

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Biology - how kindness affects your brain

It is scientifically proven that kindness makes us happier and can help protect us from depression, but how and why? These are a few reasons…

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Can pop songs inspire kindness?

Most of the time pop music might be able to inspire kindness because most of the pop songs are quite positive and it makes people happier.

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Do you have to be kind to be successful in the workplace?

Kindness has sometimes been considered a weakness in the working world. The key to climbing the corporate ladder is portrayed as having a strong work ethic and emphasis on number-oriented goals, even at the expense of an enjoyable work environment and wellbeing.

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Enigma: Strategy vs Kindness

In the summer of July 1939, some men met in a wood outside of Warsaw. They were Polish, British and French, and had met to exchange the key to the Enigma code – the complex cipher which the Germans used to transmit their messages during World War II. Solving it, they felt, would win the war.

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How can we be kinder to our planet?

We can be kinder to our planet by trying not to use disposable plastic bottles and trying to reuse plastic bags. We should also try to recycle more and also instead of driving, try and use public transport, walk or cycle or anything else.

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How did Xenia encourage kindness amongst the Greeks?

Xenia is the Ancient Greek principle of hospitality, a concept far removed from our modern-day standards, but very much necessary in a world in which staying at an inn was fraught with danger of abduction, theft and even murder. Literally ‘guest-friendship’, ξενια is a moral obligation demanding that shelter, gifts, food etc be granted to any stranger who asks for them, regardless of their background.

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How do we create kindness?

Kindness is contagious and something that benefits us all. Here are several ways you can show kindness every day.

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Inclusivity

Inclusivity demonstrates kindness by ensuring that people of all backgrounds and cultures are accepted in society. This makes others feel welcome in the community, in addition to recognising that others’ feelings, values, or opinions are valid.

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Is "kindness" a human construct?

“No act of kindness,” Aesop reminds us, “no matter how small, is ever wasted.” As a slave and storyteller living in Greece between 620 and 564 BCE, Aesop’s perception of kindness is particularly striking given his circumstances. Harsh living, cruel tasks and no chance of an independent future are hardly prospects conducive to compassion, and yet his reminder comes at a time when Greek philosophers embarked on the process of quantifying kindness. To quantify something, however, one needs a definition and this is much disputed. Google suggests that kindness is “the quality of being friendly, generous and considerate.” However, I believe there are many problems with this definition.

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Is kindness an evolutionary trait?

Kindness puts a smile on people’s faces and brightens up their day. Despite the fact that the word ‘kindness’ didn’t emerge until the 14th century, kindness may be the most important evolutionary trait since bipedalism.

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Is kindness found in the myths and legends of the classical world?

The written word is the underlying force of change in our world, silently shaping our lives from cradle to grave. From Austen to Orwell, Darwin to Descartes, the power of the written word to expand our horizons, socially, politically, emotionally, spiritually and intellectually provoking the individual, is undeniable.

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Is space exploration kind to our planet?

For over 60 years humans have been exploring the vastness of space, but is this exploration kind to the Earth? This passage will explore whether or not space exploration is kind to the planet by looking at its benefits and disadvantages.

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Kindness in music

I think kindness matters in music because I think that it is one of the core parts in making a team, an ensemble skill. Kindness breaks down barriers, aids communication and supports excellent relationships.

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Kindness or cruelty? The euthanasia debate

Euthanasia is an international issue, being a legally accepted procedure in countries such as Belgium and the Netherlands, yet still a controversy and an illegal act within the UK. Its essential role in medical ethics is always an important topic to consider: is it an act of kindness or is it simply cruel?

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Kindness playing in my ears

When approaching this article I thought about other music articles I have read, with lists of songs that reference joy, cities of the world or times of night. Nearly all of which mainly included songs from eras when I wasn’t alive, let alone knowing the ins and outs of the top 100 charts. So for this article, I have chosen to write about songs that I know best, from an era of music I am very much aware of and interested in. As well as this I am going to navigate through it in the best way I know…

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Playing as a team - why kindness matters

Kindness brings people together and builds stronger teams capable of overcoming challenges/obstacles faster and easier. Promoting kindness at work and at school builds trust and strong bonds amongst friends and colleagues.

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Elon Musk’s Starlink initiative: an act of kindness or a monopoly on technology?

Is Elon Musk’s Starlink initiative about kindness or money, power, and control? Starlink is a satellite constellation that aims to deliver global internet coverage. Elon Musk hopes that “Starlink will bring internet access to some 3 billion people who were previously unable to access the internet easily” and it currently provides service in 36 countries. Does this initiative come from the kindness of his heart or a motive to obtain money?

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The common language used around kindness

Modern foreign languages: a department that has always been relevant, interesting and evolving. Modern foreign languages are a diverse and exciting area that anyone can be a part of. Another thing that anyone can be part of is kindness.

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The interlace of kindness and duty

Some say that kindness is a language, known by humans all over the world and shared without a second thought. Others say that kindness is an obligation to humanity: if we’re not kind, then the entire world may collapse.

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The kindness of disasters – how humanity unites

We live in a world where disasters are now sadly a common event and not something we only read about in history books. Disasters take many forms, from worldwide pandemics such as Covid-19 to the aftermath of hurricanes, tsunamis and landslides that devastate life and the surrounding communities; terrorist attacks such as 9/11 and wars such as Afghanistan and the current war between Ukraine and Russia. Disasters can also be revealed over time: the recent World Cup highlighted the lack of basic human rights and liberties within many parts of our world through the loss of lives from poor working conditions in building the stadiums. However, if you look beyond the immediate aftermath of a disaster, there will always be stories of kindness and how the touch of human kindness provides strength and the ability for the human race to survive.

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The universality of the language of kindness

Languages: it’s hard to pinpoint exactly what one is, or to describe exactly what suffices as a language. We can simplify them into being some form, which communicates information from one person to another. However, the way in which different languages can be understood varies from form to form.

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What can sport teach you about being kind to yourself?

Sport is all about pushing yourself. You always have to find flaws, train as much as possible, and try to be perfect, otherwise you are failing. After all, no pain no gain, right? In my experience, this is wrong. Of course sport is about doing your best, but it doesn’t always have to be painful. In fact, one of the key lessons I have learned through sport is how to let kindness and compassion towards myself guide my progress as an athlete.

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What does kindness look like to you

Kindness is something we can’t see. It goes into the body. Like if someone is hurt you could pick them up and you could tell a teacher and if someone is stuck you can help them. I think it floats around like a red balloon, it bounces from one to another, it floats like a butterfly and that is what I think kindness is.

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What is the kindest invention?

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What is the kindest season?

The definition of the word ‘Kindness’, according to Oxford Languages’ Google dictionary, is ‘The quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate’. Anything that is kind must contain this essential kindness which leads to my first question: what does kindness look like?

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When action follows heart

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When kindness prevails: what is the greatest story ever told?

Though there have been many extraordinary stories told, there are a few that really catch the eye. A story that I find extremely brave and kind is that of Araminta Ross, who we now know as Harriet Tubman. Harriet was born in 1822 to an enslaved family in Maryland, USA. She and her family were ‘owned’ by the Brodess family. During this time people thought that enslaved people were property they owned.

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Who is the kindest fictional character?

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Why are some people kinder than others?

The question ‘Why are some people kinder than others’ is a widely debated topic, and a very interesting one. This question has been the driving force behind many scientific studies, and in this article I hope to debunk some myths surrounding this.

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Why is art the kindest form of expression?

Art serves as a companion of comfort and distraction, a form of communication everyone can express. Art doesn’t necessarily require a particular skill: in fact it’s something anyone can participate in.

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Why is it kind to be internationally minded?

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Why is it kind to learn another language?

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Would we be kind to extraterrestrial life?

Is it more terrifying to be alone in this universe, or to be surrounded by extraterrestrial life? This very question and its branches has been perplexing both physicists and psychologists for many years. When most people think of extraterrestrial life, they think of little green men. Although this statement is highly ambiguous, we humans have hammered this image into our heads.

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Outstanding Outcomes

Grades that open doors, positive attitudes that change lives, and a learning environment full of excitement and fun.

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Every student celebrated

Working with families to ensure that every student is known and appreciated for who they are.

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Passion and opportunity

An array of experiences allowing students to surprise themselves, develop leadership and discover what they love.

Work for us

Trust and choice

Allowing students to take ownership of what they learn from the very start, all the way to the choice of A Levels and IB in Sixth Form.

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City spirit

Diverse and down-to-earth students engaging with the communities around them and ready to take on the world.

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Putting girls first

Free from gender bias, free to choose any future they want, free to play with ideas and grow up while staying young.

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Student leadership and choice

Leaders who listen

At The Abbey, leadership is built on listening. Staff and student leaders aim to consult their peers and build consensus on the way ahead.

Everyone looking back at their own school days will have such clear memories of what worked well and what didn’t. Getting students involved in how school works is a wonderful experience for them. It empowers them to feel ownership over their own development. It also helps create the best and most fulfilling student experience.

At The Abbey, every form has a leader and representatives on councils looking at sustainability, diversity, food and more – a mix of the issues and the everyday experiences that shape how school feels. Student Council is led by the Head Girls and engages in a dialogue with the leadership of the school.

At the top of the Junior School and in the Sixth Form the majority of students have their own specific leadership roles. There are Head Girls and deputies, House captains and leaders in sport, drama, music and art – but there is such a wide range besides. Students get involved in organising alumna events, liaising with younger years and the Junior School, marketing, science, digital innovation – any aspect of school life that interests them and helps them gain experience.

Every student in Years 5, 6, 7, 9, 11 and 12 meets with the Head every year in small groups to share their ideas on the development of the school.

Choice in learning

The Abbey probably offers the most choice and personalisation of any school. It is all built around our Abbey Learner Profile.

We want every Abbey student to be a thinker, inquirer, communicator and risk-taker: that’s why these qualities are the heart of our profile. We want girls to own their learning: not just to excel in tasks they’ve been given, but to break ground themselves.

At the Junior School, our Human Intelligence curriculum puts students as independent inquirers at its heart. They learn how to ask the right questions, and what to do with the answers. Year 6 culminates in an exhibition of learning where students create and curate exhibits about their passions and what investigating them has taught them.

At the Senior School, students start making their own curriculum choices from Year 7. They can select two or three from a range of languages. They can explore which creative subjects works best for them. By the time they pick GCSEs they are familiar with leading their own learning.

At the top of the school, every student chooses A Levels or the IB Diploma Programme. The IB route offers six subjects, Creativity, Activity and Service, Theory of Knowledge and independent work. The A Level route offers three or four subjects, an Extended Project Qualification, the Abbey Award and much more. Read more about the Sixth Form here.

The House system

All students are members of one of our four houses:

  • Carrington
  • Ducat
  • Kensington
  • Paget

Houses don’t just offer leadership roles: they offer the chance to get to know students across year groups in whole new ways. Students collaborate in projects and take part in activities. Alumnae remember and cheer on their house forever!


 

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The Abbey probably offers the most choice and personalisation of any school.